So I'll try to sum it up.
Saw girl in class, liked her and on vday got her a card. Didn't have the guts to give it to her. Let it go and went on with my weekend. Was on a dating site and realized she was on it.
So messaged her and we talked, Told her about the vday card and how I didn't get it to her For our messages she only would message me every day once. Then after 3 days the msgs stopped. She then messaged me the day before our class. I went to class.. chickened out and didn't sit next to her.
Felt stupid, because it probably meant I was ignoring her or something. Then at the break we talked, but mostly about school and work. I wanted to sit next to her then, but didn't.
Then the class ended and she left without saying bye. I still didn't get her the vday card, which I decided I would give her "better late than never".
So then I finally sent a message a day after class about hanging out or getting her contact info to talk. And how she didn't say bye before she left as a joke.
Anyway so far no message from her. I don't know if she will message me before class again or not. I kinda feel like I blew it or that she was never interested?
I noticed in class in our group meeting she never made eye contact with me anymore. Almost like she avoided eye contact unless I was speaking. And when we talked she seemed to be more interested in writing stuff down.
Next class this week do I finally go sit next to her and talk? Maybe her perception of me will change if I make a effort to talk? My plan was last week to sit next to her.. but boy did I chicken out. And this time I know I wouldn't... but I have no idea if she even likes me.
I kinda would feel stupid sitting next to her if she has no interest in me anymore. Unless I can build that interest in her. I'm wondering if she found someone else on the dating website?
So I have no idea what to do now.. sit next to her in class now?
So I assumed if she isn't interested about my week, then it probably means she just doesn't want to talk. So after I just didn't say much anymore and she kept reading her paper.
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Well, it does seem like she's losing interest in you - and rather quickly too. But that's simply because you've made no real effort in trying to really get to know her face to face. Many girls like shy guys, yes, but not when they're too shy for their own good and when it stops them from making actual social progress. I'd say give it another shot, though. Go sit next to her, talk to her. Act like you've changed in a day (as in you've gotten rid of your shyness a bit, not gotten rid of your entire personality). Maybe it'll spark some interest in her. Maybe it won't. Just try, because otherwise you won't find out, and you'll regret that you didn't.
The reason why she hasn't blocked you is probably because it would be mean of her. Just because she might not be interested, it doesn't give her a reason to block you. I wouldn't worry too much about that to be honest.0
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