Can night owls and morning people date happily or will it always end badly due to mis-matched schedules? Opinions and experiences?
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I'm a night owl (guessing you are too judging from the posting time), but that doesn't mean that I'm a complete vampire who never sees daylight!
In terms of just dating it usually isn't THAT big of a problem (since most dates do not occur early-early morning or late-late night), but I am not sure for living together. I'd imagine SOMEONE would have to change after some amount of time.
Personally I could adjust to daylight if needed (since most of the world expects this from people anyway) but I would love it if I found a girl who also stays up late. I guess I would be willing to change also because most jobs in my career field tend to operate during daylight schedules for meeting purposes (though I have lots of potential for working from home during my own time as well).
Anyway, the way I see it is:
1. You find someone interesting who you want to know better
2. You date them to see if you are compatible
3. After a year or two as a couple you move-in together to live in sin as a 'practice' marriage
4. You marry if there were no problems living together or you separate because things didn't work out (at least you didn't marry and then separate, right?)
That's really all there is to it. I mean are you going to toss someone great out just because you *think* things won't work out? You gotta give each other a chance -otherwise there's zero chance.0