I have been dating him for 4 month now, however its has only been 4 dates where we spend the night together. But we text daily. I initiate all text communication with him. however he always responds, short responses typically in text. He tells me he likes me and wants to see me, but he tells me he is working so much and can only see me occasionally. He is shy, quiet and very kind person. I do not get a player vibe from him at all. When I am with him its amazing and fun, talking all night and constant touching, respectfully, we do have sex but it is not the main focus. He spends a lot of time talking to me and it is never in a sexual manor. He just never initiates contact. and doesn't have much time for me because of work. Is this because of a fear of moving to fast, shyness or am I missing the boat and it is a booty call and nothing more. Outwardly I admit it sounds like he is a player, but in real life he is defiantly to shy and kind to be one. I might be totally missing the boat but I like him and want to keep seeing him. How do I know if he is in to me or not?
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One mistake we women sometimes make is thinking that because a guy doesn't talk much, That he's nice. Not always.some guys who hurt you the most can be the silent type so be careful
His actions are saying he's not very interested in you. He might like you, but he likes you in small doses. He doesn't like you as much as you like him, your interest levels aren't even close.
He may not have any malicious intent to you, he may very well think you're a nice girl but for whatever reason (which honestly isn't even that important) he only wants your company occasionally.
He's not into you.guys who are into you like you.guys are capable of showing lots of emotion and interest.if he isn't doing it, find ones who will.1