My then boyfriend of 3 years and I had a fight over what he deemed to be a inappropriate text message.Really he was just jealous that I had been texting another guy in the first place.(and I see his point) but the test were not sexual.
Most couples would solve this problem, but him being angry and prideful, he cut it off.
I've been apologizing but he is still angry.
it's now been 6 months. since then he has agreed to be friends.
we text but we don't see each other
would it be appropriate to make a grand gesture to win him back?
I'm a musical major and I want to surprise him and sing him a song while playing the keyboard
would this be better recorded and sent on video rather then in person?
Lastly, a girl may enjoy this act and feel it was romantic, but
guys- how would you feel about this act?
- Send a videoVote A
- Do it In personVote B
- Don't do itVote C
Most Helpful Guy
I would say don't do it, because it's possible he was looking for a reason to break up with you that wouldn't hurt you. But that is just my intuition after a few lines of text. If you feel like he barely managed emotionally with breaking up with you, go for it, but if he just dropped the knife and ran afterward, creating minimal contact between you and eliminating any chances of working it out, then he might not like you anymore.
As far as the grand gesture itself:
Do not perform it in a place where his friends will see you do it. Guys can be super douchy in a pack, and if they encouraged the break up for any reason (including wanting you themselves) then you will have a nightmarish experience.
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