So my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months now. And I've told him several times that I just want at least one text from him a day. Like, I don't care if he needs a day to just himself but 30 seconds to send me a quick text to let me know that- I don't feel like is all that difficult.
But even still after I've told him twice now he won't text me all day. Yeah, yeah, just text him first bla bla bla. That's not the point any more. I'm just kind of feeling unimportant and like he doesn't really care all that much, I don't want to be the one to text or call him all the time because I don't want to annoy him. But he never really invites me over I always invite myself and I don't want to impose on his space even though he says I can come over any time I want.
I just don't know how to get my point across that I hate when he does this. That I just want to feel like he's thinking about me and takes 30 seconds to send me a text.
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People sure are different in their emotional needs. Your guy just doesn't get you. Think of plants and their biological needs. You can place a cactus in the poorest soil with little water blasting wind and blazing sun and ignore it and it does just fine. But the orchid needs a controlled greenhouse atmosphere with evenly moist rich soil and filtered sunlight, plenty of humidity and no harsh wind. Your guy is treating you like a cactus when you're in need of more emotional nourishment.