If you like a girl, enjoy being with her, want to spend additional time with her (going to the beach, seeing a film, going to gallery, etc), then why tell her you only want a "fun" relationship, a "casual thing". Why not try dating her?
- I just want sex without committmentVote A
- I am not in the right space to have a relationship right nowVote B
- Waiting for someone better- she'll doVote C
- I'm confused!!Vote D
- Other - need to comment on this.Vote E
The proposition (wanting casual sex) seems to go hand in hand with low self-esteem, lack of respect (for self and others) and instant gratification.
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I've always wondered why guys do this. Maybe it's because he doesn't like you enough to be exclusive, or he's genuinely afraid of commitment right now.1