Last night me and my boyfriend were hanging out at his cousins house I pulled out my phone and started texting my friend that is sick, pregnant and sits home all day. We were just talking about jobs cause she quit hers. And then my boyfriend started getting upset that I was texting her saying he saw me delete messages earlier..and I did my moms messages, and I tried to explain to him that I delete stuff out of my phone out of habit. So he was asking me what I was talking about with my friends but when I said here see my texts he says no I don't care...I really don't like apparently you do. I told him I wasn't doing anything I'm not talking to anybody and he has me confused with one of his x"s.he made a big whole thing in front of his cousin and his cousins girlfriend. We end up leaving and he was like I see everything you don't have to try to tell me. Why you got going huh huh...im like nothing he was like you always are on your phone I was like no I'm not. He was acting like he really doesn't want me having a phone at all. I got really upset snapped on him which I didn't want but I was just so hurt that he thought I would do anything to him like that. then as soon as I get upset he doesn't want to talk about it anymore like wtf? So what should I do to make him feel better about things, how should I treat when he gets like this again?
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Maybe you are way more often on your phone than you realise. I, for one, hate when I'm with people and they're on their phone. Sure there can be emergencies or exceptions but when someone's having entire conversations whilst I'm present I find that quite rude and disrespectful. I'm not entirely sure what your boyfriend's problem is, whether he really thinks you're cheating on him or it merely annoys him that you're on your phone so often. Maybe try to put your phone down when he's around and dedicate your time to him.0