I fooled around with a guy for about two or so months before we had a mutual break up. I initiated it but he was in the middle of a slow fade out. We had mutual friends so we decided to just be friends. A month after we broke up, he came to my house uninvited (though I invited our mutual friends, so no biggie.) A week after that he liked my instagram photo. Since then there has been no contact.
5 months later I received a text from him, saying something along the lines of:
"Hey, sorry, I just had to say this...but didn't you notice that we stopped talking once we realized we aren't going to make out with each other?" I laughed and told him I've been busy. He said it was his fault as much as mine and wanted to check to see if I was doing alright.
What has brought this on? I don't want more friends since I am swamped as it is, so I dropped some drama bombs on him to scare him off and it worked, he didn't reply. But why message me after 5 months? And what did his message mean/what is he trying to say?
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It's because he misses you, and really likes you.
He wouldn't have sent that if he's just seeing you as a friend.0