Hi, I am a senior in high school. Freshman year I dated this guy for 4 months. I was in love with him, and he was in even more in love with me. I broke up with him for a reason I now realize was really stupid. It crushed him and he changed a lot because of it. Junior year we became good friends again. He's had some girlfriends, and I've had some boyfriends. Up until senior year, he has told people he still loves me, but I was dating this guy I had been with for over a year. I knew I still had some feelings for him, but I didn't know what to do, so I never said anything. He started dating this girl(who I think is alright) and he is in love with her. Now that is been a while since the breakup with the guy I'd been dating for a year, I have started to rrealized how I really feel for my ex(from freshman year) and I really regret not telling him how I felt before he met this girl..thinking about how we could be now, I regret ever breaking up with him in the first place. I can really see him and I living a long happy life together and all that(as I'm sure he could before he met this girl). They have been dating for 5 months now I think, Maybe it was 4. Is it too late for me now? Have I blown my chances? Me and him have a history and now we are really good friends...and I wouldn't want to lose him completely. Should I tell him how I feel?
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Aren't you going to college soon? Why are you worrying about some guy from high school?
In all honesty, sounds like your loneliness is making him more attractive than he is. Also...you've had a FEW boyfriends and you had feelings for this guy still? That's pretty messed up to those guys whose time you wasted over a year. They deserved to know you had feelings for some other guy. In all essence, you used them.
You shouldn't tell him you have feelings, because it seems like most girls and guys of the world...you are about self-gratification through good feelings and happiness.0