this has happened a few times in the past two years. I chalked it up to insecurities or perhaps other issues or maybe they had bf's I dunno. let me know what you think.
this is the latest incarnation of this phenomenon. last night met a girl. she was obviously into me. we walked arm in arm. she gave me her phone #. she told me to call her right before I dropped her and her friend off.
today I text her something innocuous. I say "that ____ song is stuck in my head now". it was a song we heard and we both said we liked last night.
the whole time her friend I could tell was no so sure about me. she was nice to me but the vibe I got was that she didn't trust me or something--like I was a player the moment she saw me.
two other times I met a girl. long story short before they left they both unexpectedley kissed me on the cheek. after that, seemed disinterested when I texted. in person they ignored me. I'm like "bleehhhh whatever"
another time I went on a date a few times with a girl. I kissed her on the cheek before I left on one date. she texted me that night said she had fun blah blah. we made plans to see each other again a few days later. a few days later came and she gave some BS excuse and I never bothered talking to her again and she never contacted me again.
another time--met a girl on Friday. all good. sitting together my arm around her. she tells me to text. I do on Sunday to make plans. she texts back three days later. I say "f*** it".
another time. girl super into me. I heard her friend say I was attractive. I talked to her. exchanged numbers. I text her a couple days later. she texts back the next day and seems completely uninterested. I say "f*** it"
i wouldn't put it past a girl to do that.