Long story short I was talking to this guy a lot for like a week. We texted back and forth non stop and Skyped about an hour a day. Everything seemed really great and we got along super well.
Problem is, a few days ago this all kind of stopped and he told me he was scared of commitment. Since then I have tried texting him and have gotten occasional short responses and he just says he's busy.
I just want to know if I did something wrong or if he is just really scared of getting too serious too fast. Also what do I do now?
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He's really just scared of going too fast. What you do is say "no problem" and start spending more time doing other stuff with other people - but when he DOES contact you, don't snub him. Be happy, upbeat, playful, and have fun. If you do that, he'll want to spend time with you. But by waiting for him to make contact first, you're letting him set the pace he's comfortable with. And by actually spending time doing other stuff with other people, you'll keep yourself busy so you aren't just obsessing over why you haven't heard from him.1