There's this guy that I like and he likes me too. We've been friends for years and he's hilarious. We're going out on a date this weekend, but I'm scared. He's black and I'm white, and my stepdad is so racist. (For example; he was at my softball game and saw a black guy and white girl holding hands and said "Her parents should be shot for letting her be with him." Me and my mom were furious.) He's coming to my house before our date and my stepdad will be there. He knows how I feel about racism; I've yelled at him many times for being racist. My mom's totally fine with it (interracial dating). I'm going out with him no matter what, I just need some help. I don't want my date to come over and then my stepdad be rude towards him. Help?
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err I dunno, seems like a bad idea to bring him over unless you talk to your stepdad beforehand. explain to him that this date means a lot, this guy is a good friend. you shud let him know that if he ruins this date, embarrasses u, or intimidates the guy...ull never forgive him for it. you shud get your mom to talk to your stepdad as well.
seems like either that or you don't have him come over to your house first. mebe hav your mom drop you off somewhere you guys are going? try to make it a situation where only your mom meets him...that would be the optimal solution.1