My boyfriend dumped me after a fight by blocking me and ignoring my email reaching out to him. He texted me today that he failed school because of me. Told me I was an emotional head case/wreck and that he's not going to date again for a Long time in case she's anything like me. What's his deal? I just got upset over the fact he lied to me about not being on the dating website. He's the one that treated me poorly so why is he so bloody angry with me.
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Google “projecting blame”
I lived with someone for years who would always blame me for their bad feelings which they should own up to. That person was simply an angry person.
If a person is mad over ANYTHING at all, it’s because THEY decide to handle it that way.
What an emotional mess. I don’t do anger anymore and neither should you.
He blamed you for classes you didn’t take. Clear sign of coo-coo.
“I’m sorry hun, I should have been paying attention and taking better notes.”
Oh, block his texts and calls. Separate yourself from anyone that doesn’t ABSOLUTELY bring out the best in a situation. And don’t think you can change him or the situation.
Drop him. Find a nice young happy man.0