I'm trying my hand at finding love online. I am also trying to meet people in person too, but I am having issues with that.
Anyway, I have been sending out messages and also replying to messages.
I met this one guy who I kinda like. But it just seems like now that he knows I'm interested, he isn't pursuing me as hard anymore. Before we met, he was constantly messaging me. Now we can go a day without a single message.
I understand people get busy, but when I met him he said his phone was attached to his hip. He'd be lost without it, so you'd think even though he is busy he would be able to shoot a quick text right?
Now this other guy I was messaging seemed pretty interested too. I gave him my number and he sends one text and basically just stops talking :S
What's the deal?
This is the second time I have been cancelled on TODAY! I had a coffee date earlier on with this other guy, he cancelled too! :( I give up :(
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Sadly a lot of guys are like this. The guys who enjoy the chase usually want to keep it up. Once they've "caught" you, the challenge and fun are over. Fortunately, most of those guys aren't worth being with and typically have a difficult time getting and keeping a relationship going.
On the other side of the spectrum there are guys who genuinely want to meet a girl and get to know her. It looks like you're falling for the chasers who don't really know what they want once they get you.
You also mentioned that the first guy lost interest when you two actually met. Did something happen that could have turned him off?1
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