Over the past month in a half, I have hung out with a guy 5 times (each time 4+ hours) and we have been intimate. Due to both of our schedules, we haven't been able to hang out more than that and we'll text every couple of days.
When (and how) do I have the conversation about whether or not he thinks we are dating? Is that even something to bring up at this point?
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why don't you ask him now?
this guy I've been seeing, we had sex on our third date, we meet 2-3/week,and we never brought topic about exclusivity or title stuff, but I just know we're exclusive..
I was confused in the beginning that he just want fwb, he even mentioned fbuddy before ugh.
then he's been very affectionate, caring, contacting me everyday, telling me how he misses me likes me how he works on this relationship and we hav great situation and stuff.. and he wants to hangout outside bedroom too so I know he likes me more than that.
I actually asked him before if we're fwb, and he asked me back if that's what I want (my guy friend told me that means he doesn't want friends with benefits because if a guy just sees you as friends with benefits he'd say yea rightaway.) so you can try ask him like that...
Then I tried another shot lol asking him if he minds me dating others, which he said he doesn't care :( but I know he cares because he gets real jealous every time someone texts me and he alwas checks on guys who texting me. so you can ask this too lol or try to see if he gets jealous in case your guy too say he doesn't care lol
Another one, lol We're flirting and he told me how we have a great sexual connection, so I told him "enjoy now, because it won't last forever." and he went all crazy kept asking why it won't last untill I answer lol I told him I was talking about like few years from now because I don't think we'd keep having sex by then unless we get married. and he laughed, told me he really likes me and we're having a good situation.
so you can try this one too lol like try to test him ya kno
we also asked each other if we're dating someone elses, and we both claimed not.
so I think we're pretty much exclusive just without label. I see sometimes guys saying they don't understand girls looking for label so much when it can just naturally happen.
so try to see those signs. we don't have label, but I just know he likes me and cares me...
listen to your gut!
oh also, he's been telling me he likes me alot, and he tries to make me tell him I like him..which I never done. so hopefully my guy also talks about exclusivity soon :( haha
we've been dating little more than a month!