I recently started dating a girl with 2 kids. We’re both in our 20s. She’s been divorced for about a year. Her ex. was verbally and physically abusive. He barely pays child support. She’s been a friend for about 5 years so I know everything she’s been through. I know most guys my age would run away as fast as they can from her. But I'm not most guys. I can’t stop thinking about her. She’s very sweet and loves her children deeply. We have similar personalities, beliefs & interests. My only problem is I’m not sure how I feel about continuing to date a girl with kids. At first I was OK with it, but now I’m having second thoughts. I like kids but I don’t think I’m very good with them.
I believe we have the potential for something long-term if only I could get over my reservations about her children. Should I continue to see her?
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Honestly I don't agree with you , They're plenty of men who would date a woman with say 5 kids . This is the day we're living in , Things have changed , It's not like when our parents were growing up . And a lot of men wouldn't date women with kids already , More women are having kids out of school already . Which is sad , For her to have two kids by a marriage . She should be applauded she did it right , Even though things didn't work out for her . You have the right to not want to date women with children , But if you really like her . I say give it a chance , She could be the one . I noticed in life , Things are not planned like we think our life should be .0