does it look desperate or bad to reply too fast? do some people intentionally wait?
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Here's the deal. Online dating, real life dating, whatever. You're dating this person because you're interested in each other, and if all goes exceedingly well, you'll end up married. If the other person is genuinely interested in you, they're not going to be thinking. "She's replying fast, she must be so desperate." They're going to generally be happy to talk to you, no matter how slow or fast you're replying. Reply as you can, whenever you'd like, it really shouldn't matter.2