This happened to me today actually. I was at work and there is a younger girl that I believed used to like me, and possibly still does, but I've heard about some thing she did that make me feel like shed be a bad date or be bad/hard to be in a relarionship with her because of her personality.
Did you still like the person after? Did you try to date them anyway, dispite what you heard about them?
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Yeah. I had a boyfriend in high school who cheated on me and ended up dumping me for a slutbag. And to justify it he told everyone that I had been physically abusive, even though it wasn't true. But do you think anyone wanted to go out with me after that? Hell no. The only guy who I liked who was willing to be with me after that was this kid who was a grade younger and was conveniently living under a rock.
Just remember that when someone tells you something, it may be a lie or a rumor. Or it could have been true in the past but they aren't like that anymore. So you should give her a chance, or at least ask her about it yourself.0