First of all, I am American, and have grown up in America. I expect a ton of bashing coming from American men, saying, "I'm not a p****!" Perhaps, you could analyze other American men that you know are p******. Still, I hear over and over from foreign women who complain that American men are not aggressive at all when dealing with women that they are attracted to. "In my country, men NEVER date me without at least trying to kiss me. Relationships progress very quick in my home country."
FWIW, I am a p**** as well when it comes to picking up women. And even, forget about picking up strangers. I am a p**** even when it comes to dating women that are not strangers. So, I am hoping even to learn something more about myself too.
But the fact remain, that I hear this constantly from foreign women when they are comparing American men compared to the men of their various home countries.
What do you think?
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No dude get the same thing, from American girls themselves too. I've heard the word effeminate (seriously) and no backbone couple of times. I also hear how black guys are more confident and assertive. All you gotta do is give them a hint and they immediately act on it. This is white girls saying it.
On occasion I've even seen black girls say they don't date white guys because they don't have swagger.
So one has to ask what the hell is going on. Why do American white guys lack confidence, backbone, why they're not assertive. Why are they so scared. Guys need to grow a freakin pair and man the hell up dudes. The guy is totally right. All you gotta do is see how white guys act around girls.
I'd be really interested in what girls say, hope they'll be blunt and candid.0