Ok so I had an awkward moment with this girl and killed her attraction to me. She feels uncomfortable around me know. So I'm giving her space and occasionally texting her. Things are starting to become less awkward, but still I would appreciate opinions of how our conversation went. Thanks!
Her: Hey what's up
Me: Not much. Have a good weekend?
Her: Yeah for the most part what about you
Me: It was OK. I went to a young life "party" last night. So lame haha
Her: Hmmm never been
Me: The power went out like an hour into it and I was trapped in the middle of a bunch of sweaty people :(
Her: :( mehhh
Me: What did you do over the weekend?
Her: Just went out on Saturday Friday we just kinda drank in my dorm with people a little
Me: How was that?
Her: Saturday was good. Except I pregamed in [other dorm] and almost got in trouble cause the campus police came in! So lucky.
Me: ha ha how did they know to come?
Her: They just patrol the building
Me: What are you doing this week?
Her: Ummm not sure hoping for classes cancelled tomo
Me: I know! I hate going to class.
Her: I have a test tomo :(
Me: What subject?
Her: Kinesiology. ha ha but stillll
Me: (Inside joke. I thought she would think it was funny. Maybe she didn't like it. Idk. One time we were kind of drunk and explained the entire anatomy of the human heart to me.) Do you need to know how the heart works? Cause I think you'll be fine if that's the case.
Her: Oh my goshhh
Me: Well I'm right, aren't I?
Then she didn't text back. I thought it was funny. Did I do something wrong? Or is it subconciously a good thing for me... Maybe helping make sure she doesn't friend zone me now? Also I'm writing her a song. I'm going to put it on YouTube and give her the link in a FB message. How can I fit that in too? I was also going to bring her a box of her favorite kind of cereal that she never gets to eat. Advice?
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I don't think you did anything wrong at all, and the inside joke thing was a great idea. Maybe it's just me, but it doesn't seem like she's putting that much effort into the conversation, so it makes me think she's not really into you?
I'm all for people being open about their feelings, but if she already knows you like her, then the ball's in her court now, so writing her a song and bringing her presents is just going to pressure her, I think. I don't know your whole history, though.0