For instance before the relationship is made official, if he doesn't call or text much, just for the sake of talking to you, will you see this as a bad sign?
I was going on a few dates with my dream girl I had a crush on for the longest time and I was reluctant to contact her much because ideally wanted her to like me and I feared sounding desperate. Because of these time lapses (and other things) I feel that was the reason she may have lost interest.
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Girls need to feel desired by their men as much as guys want to feel needed by their women.
She must have felt unwanted by you and that's for sure a reason to walk away. See, you might have been reluctant or had your own reasons (like being afraid to seem clingy and desperate) but this isn't a reason for her to stay. I bet you didn't open your heart to her and didn't explain your fears, so how would she know? Any girl would have assumed that you didn't like her much or was after another girl and that she was just an option for you.
One important sign of interest is regular contact. Any man in love would want to be able to hear his lover's voice, see her all the time and share his time with her. If this isn't happening, she will try to work things out until she feels like there is no hope anymore. Relationship is a two-way street and maybe she felt like she was the only one making effort.
Your assumption is true. As I said, any girl wants to feel desired by her man. If it isn't happening, then something must be wrong.
It's a good lesson for you anyway. I'm glad you now understand your mistake. Only a few actually admit their faults. It's great that you do. :)3