So I was browsing a dating site on which I have a profile when I came across a profile of a girl I know. She is in my broader social circle and although I don't know her well I do know her. She is someone I would consider dating and if I didn't know her at all I probably would have messaged her. Anyway I am wondering what some of you might suggest is the best course of action. Should I message her? Say something about next time I see her? Is there a better option?
Also there are people in my social group I don't particular want to know I use a dating site but maybe I won't have to worry about it getting out if she feels the same way and also has a profile.
Thanks for the help.
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What about you send her "Hey , I never thought I would meet a person I know in real life on a dating site Maybe that's a sign that I should ask you out maybe not :) , so what do you think should I ask you out ?
P.S: This is our little secret , hush don't tell anybody :P . " .