Life Story Alert:
When I was 17, I got my heart really broken for the very first time (cheated on after a year and a half of dating). I know it sounds "too young" to a lot of you, but it was really real. Ever since then, I couldn't cope with just being single because there was too much to miss. I was always talking to someone or dating around. I dated another guy just a year later, and the same thing happened.
Is it possible for a heart to just not heal after that? I act like I don't care if I'm involved with a guy or not at any given time, but the reality is quite the opposite. I can't stand being alone ever. I didn't realize it was bad until my guy ended things with me today so he could "find himself" (yeah right). The part that scares me is that right after that, I had my phone out with the mentality of just "on to the next one". I just think it's easier than sitting there and grieving.
Does anyone have this problem? Am I normal? Is it possible that hearts just don't heal sometimes?
Most Helpful Girl
'I can't stand being alone ever' sure that isn't just it? Do you miss the relationship or the guy/guys you were with? It's okay to miss what comes with being in a relationship, and possible to mistake those feelings for actually missing the person. (Tell me if I'm wrong) Hearts heal with out a doubt. If you really want to get over someone properly, stop thinking about them. Stop associating yourself with anything that makes you think about them, stop listening to music that reminds you of them, or stalking them on Facebook (block their updates). Don't read through texts, or look at old pictures. Stop thinking about what you had, and think about what you have. Learn to love being single so when you get into a relationship again it won't be because you just want to be in a relationship. It'll be because you genuinely like the guy. Again tell me if I'm wrong, this is just a different perspective0