SO I just got rejected I think by this guy who said he liked me.
We have been going out on dates, flirting and dancing, but never kissed yet. So I talked to him and said "I don't know if we are friends or dating, because I really like you but what I'm really interested to know is what you want out of this", He was surprised and said well I don't know you. Then it was awkward for a bit, then he said I think I like you. See I'm smiling it's a good sign. But let me think what I want out of this.
He took like 3 weeks and didn't tell me. Though he kept in touch and asked me what was dating to me. I said "It would be hanging out with each other and see how we go from there."
SO I texted him after a while and reminded him about what we talked about and that I'm just gonna assume he wants to be friends. He made it sound like he was extremely busy. He said yes I would like to keep it this way and I hope it won't change anything.
Today we saw each other in the cafeteria, but I pretended I didn't see him. And he did the same I think. Is he disgusted of me? I feel horrible?!
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The thing is the term "dating" is so friggin confusing because what one person considers "dating" another can consider a "commitment" while another can consider it "a stage before a relationship where you can see other people."
Now the thing is feelings are starting to arise and you two don't know what direction the other wants to take.
This honestly requires a sitdown discussion private between you two in person(not by text/phone and all that junk) away from all other people where you two can lay it all down. If you brought up what you said while stuff was going on depending on where you were it could mean that he wouldn't say things that would normally be said.0