Well I am a white guy and I always hear from others that it is only the ugly white women that date the black men and for a while I believed it. (probably just to make myself feel good).
But then I just saw so many hot women with black men and it was kind of hard to believe that only ugly white women date black men.
Seems like actually the hottest white women are the ones that date black men. Then the women who are a bit below these women in beauty date white men.
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I had strong feelings for my really good friend of about two years. Yes, she is incredibly beautiful and can pretty much get any guy she wants. Again I can't emphasize enough how gorgeous she is. She also came from a wealthy family and was very intelligent. I later found out that she had a very long and very serious relationship with a black guy. I don't mean one of those well mannered and intelligent black men, I mean the douchbag wanna be gangster types. I was shocked, disgusted, repulsed, and I still had extremely strong feelings for her. I've never had more of an emotional diarrhea than I did at that time. She also completely destroyed my ego, confidence, and self-worth when she rejected me. I was great to her and I'm a damn good catch, but knowing that she chose a complete loser over me was one of the hardest things I had to cope with. I kept on thinking "Am I really worse than THAT guy". Now I'm basically over it, but the scar is still there. She's the only person in my life that I wish I never met, she set me back for years.0