There is a guy I went on a good few dates with back when I was 23.He decided to stop seeing me mainly because I wasn't ready to sleep with him.I was saddened,but I left him alone.He is about or 7 years older.At the time,I attended his very first show as a musician.Anyway,after he dropped me,I ended up seeing him on the train 4 years later! :o We kissed,but I realized I felt nothing for him...and yet,he was picking up right where he left off.
We got into a bit of a row,and we didn't see each other for about 6 months...then we ended up talking again somehow.Then another 6 months of not speaking...then I get a text out of the blue!He's checking in on me to see how I'm doing and giving me an update on his music career.Most recently,a week ago...I received a weird email,and I decided to message him because I was sure his email had been hacked.He then seemed all interested in meeting up,catching up etc.I'm 29 now,and over the four years he was searching for me on FB,and still inviting me to shows etc. I just would have thought him being the playboy he is,he would have forgotten who I am by now.
I think I felt nothing while kissing him because I feel like I need to get to know someone BEFORE being even that physical.