I've been seeing this guy for a few weeks now, and he usually calls or texts me everyday, or every second day. He had messaged me Thursday morning like he usually does, but I heard nothing from him that night. Nothing the next morning, nothing last night and I don't think I'll hear from him today either. I don't know if he's waiting for me to contact him first, but I don't really want to incase he's lost interest.
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There's no time that you should start worrying because worrying never helps a situation. It'll only make you dream up things that might not be true or even give you the wrong impression of what reality really is. First, you've not been seeing him for very long nor has he not called or texts you much longer than he's been. Since you communicated with him 2 days ago, which is in the every second day time frame you mentioned, wait until late tomorrow (Sunday) before you get concerned with what's up with him. If you have a lot of interest in him, why not text him tomorrow night and say you've missed hearing from him, and then wait for a response. If you get one soon after you'll know the deal for good or for bad. If you don't hear from him by Monday, know that you're not as special to him as he is to you, or that he's in jail. If that's the case and you want to find out why, then contact someone he knows and ask them if he's OK. It's OK for you to try and find out what's going on so that you can move on if necessary. It could turn out like you said in your update. If everything turns out to be OK, I think it'd be a good idea in the future for you to start contacting him yourself too sometimes. Always get in the habit of keeping the lines of communications open in any kind of a relationship. You'll find that once it breaks down there's always a reason. You should always find out that reason so that you can deal with it in the best way and learn from it.0