I hope I don't offend anyone with this question but I need to ask about this. While I live a busy life, I have an online dating profile up that I look at when I get a message but I don't go online messaging girls trying to pick up dates because I am busy. I am in-shape and workout very often. I notice that I get messages every so often from overweight women and I am not attracted to overweight women. So it brings me to these questions.
Do these women realize that I don't reply to them because they are overweight?
I'd also like to know, are overweight people willing to date other overweight people? I ask this because I was talking to someone once who was getting to know a woman over the phone and he was telling me he was worried that she was overweight when he himself is extremely overweight which makes no sense to me.
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I think women are more aware of it than men, this site is the perfect example, countless guys come on here whinging and acting like they are entitled to the hottest, skinniest chicks, there sooooooo many questions like "I'm a average joe, how do I get a heidi klum? isn't that what I deserve? I shouldn't have to lower my totally unrealistic standards just because I got hit with the ugly stick and am 50lbs overweight, girls shouldn't be so shallow they should judge me for what's on the inside, even, if I myself only care about the superficial"
I have never once seen the equivalent rant from a girl, most girls are painfully aware of the realities of being bigger or plain.
but also remember just because someone is overweight doesn't suddenly make them immune to liking people skinnier than themselves, I agree people should seek out an equal and have realistic expectations, but it's also condescending and mean to be like "oh my god, does that fatty think she deserves me?" why can't you just take it as a compliment and leave it at that?4