I have tried many dating websites and haven't had any luck, I am currently on POF and I haven't had one response to any of the emails that I have wrote. I'm not rude in the message, generally just say hello. I literally have sent 60 messages to 60 different girls and not one has sent anything back. Is there something wrong with me, what am I doing wrong? I don't have luck talking to women in person, but now it seems that the ones online don't want to online either. I could understand if, for example, a dozen out of 60 women don't respond, every single one?! I can't wrap my head around this whole nonsense and quite frankly it's extremely depressing. Every site I have been on is the same way. How does a guy get a girl interested? What happens when your not that good looking and not very interesting or have nothing to say? Is it fate that you will stay alone forever? Should I just take the first one that comes along because I want a relationship so bad that I will have no choice but to take what I can get, not that this is going to happen... Not only are the very attractive girls out of my league, I couldn't even get the ones that I find not attractive to like me. It's a lose-lose situation.
Most Helpful Girl
Nope, not all sites are the same! I did a lot of research before trying online dating, and from what I found, the two highest rated sites are Match and eHarmony. They cost a bit of money, but in my opinion they're worth it! You really do get what you pay for. On unpaid sites, you get a lot of scammers and fake profiles. On sites like Match and eHarmony, the number of scammers and not serious members goes down dramatically. I ended up choosing Match because it's $100 for 6 months, but if you haven't met anyone in 6 months, they will give you the next 6 free! I ended up meeting my boyfriend (we've been together over a year now!) and deactivating my account within three months, but the site was still DEFINITELY worth the time and money. That's just my personal experience though. I'd recommend googling "online dating site reviews" and reading up on your options, then deciding which is right for you. Regardless, I'm sure you are NOT destined to stay alone forever! Don't give up (:0