i'm going on a 2nd date with this guy, he's suggested to go drinks after dinner. I don't drink, what else can we do that'll be fun on a date beside going drinking? Do guys find girls who don't drink boring and conservative?
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I rarely drink either, but if I'm going to a bar and people are "uncomfortable" if I'm not drinking with them, I'll either just order a Coke (whose to say it isn't a Rum & Coke?) or a non-alcoholic all-juice cocktail, such as a Batman or a Yellowjacket. They look like a cocktail and so people just assume it is one.
But I'd just mention that you don't drink, and figure something else out. Go for ice cream or Jamba Juice or something like that, OR, if he just wants to go to a bar, do what I mentioned above: order something non-alcoholic.
The point of a date is really so that you can spend time with each other and talk, and there are lots better places to do that than a bar. As someone else mentioned, the main reason to go to a bar is to get buzzed so that you essentially have an excuse to made dumb or rash decisions, like, say, going home with him for sex. But you're old enough to do that without needing an excuse if that's what you want to do, and if not, then you don't need your judgement impaired.1