There's a girl I have been friends with for 2 years but there's always been that romantic spark between us. We know each other very well. She has a "boyfriend" but has complained about him repeatedly - he treats her quite poorly. I decided one day to write her a letter telling her how much I cared about her and other stuff (I wasn't trying to "steal" her away, I just needed to get the truth out there). When she read it she texted me saying that she was sitting in bed crying from happiness because nobody ever said anything so sweet, that she liked me since day one but just never thought I liked her back, that I mean the world to her. She said her boyfriend would never say something like that to her.
So the next morning she texts me "good morning sunshine" and all that. The next time I see her she's giving me hugs, slight hand touching - the overall vibe is very relationship-like. I was fine with it at first, but then realized... wait, she still technically has a boyfriend, and is doing this? Then I was on Facebook she wrote like "Saturdays with my main man :3" and "I wish my boy was here" and stuff. She had a job interview this morning so I text her "I heard through the grapevine you have an interview today... good luck and remember to flash them beautiful pearly whites of yours :P" to which I got no reply.
Honestly, it would have been fine if she got the letter and told me she DIDN'T like me back, or just didn't mention it, as my goal and tone with the letter was just to let her know how much I care, friends or otherwise. However, if she told me all that stuff and turns out she was just saying it for the sake of saying it, I am going to be mad. What do you think?
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Wow wtf, saying Saturdays with my man, and wish my boy was here, after she did all that...wow. I've been there man, I f***ing hate when a women does that, they are truly honest to god, just immature and have NO IDEA WHAT THEY WANT! they can't make their godamn minds up, women are supposed to be the romantic one's right... I know how you feel right now, and its the worst feeling in the world, women will just lead you on, I'm starting to think they are just attention whores, I'm truly sorry this is happening to you, I hope you feel better, have a nice day man.1