Well I do feel SOMETHING. Awkwardness, discomfort, disinterest. I'll kiss them and there will be no spark, no feeling. It's just simply pressing my lips to someone else's. I want to feel something, I try to feel something but after a month of dating I usually throw in the towel. Sometimes I think I'm not even attracted to guys... I mean I am attracted to them, just not when I'm in a relationship with one.
I don't know what's wrong, I try so hard to make it work, to feel something. But then I just feel guilty for wasting his time when there's nothing there.
I want a boyfriend but every time I have one I just can't feel anything with him. What am I doing wrong? I date incredible guys. They're nice, they're amazing and I want so badly to feel something for them but I try and I fail.
How can I correct the situation?
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2 words friend zoned you friend zoned us true good men/nice guys like myself then you go right after jerks,scumbags,a**holes and many other bad men and bastards because 3 things turn you on when dating bad men and they are drama,challenge and mystery don't say you don't you want what you can't have or as they would say you try to change the guy into the guy you want him to be not accepting him for who he is or as articals could say you want to change him into your ideal man.
If this is not you then I'm not aiming at you I am talking about the ones who do and I am not generalizing and no I'm not stereotyping I'm only speaking in general and in most cases anyway to answer your question step 1. never date bad men date us true good men right from the start never I mean ever friend zoned good men or that tells him you want jerks.
Step 2. be completely honest with him and with yourself and if you choose to date jerks then tell him only like jerks who hits me or tell him I hate you then at least he knows the truth and don't complain about jerks no good men around and finally step 3.don't ever let your friends influence you who you date and if that guy is a jerk.
Then you need to fix the problem you have the power to end it no crying to nice guys/good men who you rejected no bitching,moaning about no good men around and if you do then like I said 2 words friend zoned you put him there and if he have no chance with you then he have to act like a boyfriend by being a jerk to get you I can go on and on about this it's kinda difficult to explain so I leave it here for now.
And before you jump my throat or jump to conclusion read the whole thing before you reply/comment my answer and my answer is just part of what's happening and what happen to nice guys/good men like myself thanks for reading I hope this shine some light on this subject or at least part of it and good luck you'll gonna need it :).0
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