I dated this chick for a month (we're mid 20s) before we stopped. At one point we even kissed right before we officially stopped dating but she stated she "felt no spark". Since then, we've had our ups and downs but we are talking again and seemingly closer than before. She stated weeks ago we are "just friends" and no longer dating.However, she has mentioned that she has thought about having me sleep over on occasions. Why would a girl be thinking this if she "feels no spark at all"? Not to mention, the last time we went out to the movies we were holding hands for a while before the movie started. A few days ago, we went out and she said she wanted me to stay over. I agreed and stayed with her for the night, during which we held helds quite a bit and we cuddled the entire night. Does she have feelings for me? If so, why would she deny and say otherwise? Logically, as a guy, it makes no sense. Mind you, the last serious relationship she had was years ago and she was very hurt when she broke up with her ex. Thanks for your thoughts!
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She sees you as a friend, but doesn't wanna be lonely so she's using your feelings for her to string you along so she'd have someone to do coupley things with but will still be free to look for other guys in the meantime. Don't be that guy. Tell her you know what she's doing and that you won't allow that, but at the same time, you're alright if she wants to really date you for you. And whaddya know, maybe that will get her to really think. You know how girls like when guys get all stern.2