I;ve been doing it for a few weeks now and he has started to have feelings for me and it's getting annoying because I have to pretend like I care to keep it going. What should I do that will have a devastating effect on both brothers
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First of all, you don't need advice, you seem to have a firm grasp of what you're doing. What you do need is help and a lot more than what you can gather off a website. You truly need psychological help in the worst way.
As far as my take on what you're doing. For starters, lets talk about immorality. Granted you dated the first brother most likely out of a chance meeting and there's nothing wrong with that. For whatever reason the relationship ended, IT'S OVER! Get over it, come to terms with it and get on with your life.
Instead, you decide to take revenge, which is already a repulsive and immature move , but to do it with HIS BROTHER?! You are one psychopathic piece of work. That's where you totally lost your morality. Don't think that I'm just blaming you either, his brother is at fault in this too. Some lines as a brother you just don't cross.
Additionally, you want to cause pain to the brother, who most likely did NOTHING to you. I guess you're justifying this as collateral damage in effort to maximize the revenge on the first brother you dated. This further validates my claim that you're totally psychopathic and have no regard for anyone's feelings except your own.
You have a mentality that even some animals (being some species mate for life) crossing lines that some species don't. Then you have the nerve to be boastful about it, as if you have just accomplished some lifetime achievement. In reality, you have done nothing but devalue yourself as a woman and as a human being.
As for the devastation, its quite possible you have already done more than enough as I am certain this has already put a strain on their relationship, if not severed it completely. I'm not telling you this to congratulate you, but I am saying this in the hopes that you will realize what you have already done or the lasting potential it may have with you doing it and hopefully find some grain of remorse in that heartless soul you have and come clean with them and end this foul act.
The only advice I can give to you to you that is useful is to end this charade by walking out of both brothers lives and walking into a mental institution and seek the help you desperately need. Even if you feel jilted by the first brother, I cannot think of anything that he could have possibly done to deserve this kind of payback. Hopefully someday you will wake up, grow up and wise up and actually become someone who respects herself enough to know the difference between ethically sound and ethically inept. At least then, even if they could never forgive you for hat you've done at least they might find comfort in the fact that you did eventually learn morality and self respect.