Long story short, I dated this guy in college, 2 years ago. I broke it off with him not long after he told me he was going into the marines. We have talked on and off since then. He was dating this one girl that he was "just friends" with when we were together. He said there was nothing there. Well, about 6 months ago, he started dating her and was engaged for 2 weeks, before breaking it off. Anyways, he's been talking to me again since he got un-engaged, and has been wanting me to come see him where he's at right now, which is 10 hours away. I asked him if he had asked anyone else, and he said another girl that was an old friend. She wouldn't come when he was engaged, but she's down there now. I asked him if he dated her in the past too, and he said no. What bothers me is that I don't know if she's just another friend or more than that. He says just a friend, but that's what he said about the other girl too. Of course, he hasn't talked to me a lot the past 2 or 3 days, since she decided she was coming. I don't know what to think. If he's really interested in me again, or just wants someone to talk to when he's bored. He's told me things that makes me think he obviously still wants me, but I don't know if I trust him yet. He's really hurt me in the past. What should I do? Thanks!
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Please don't waste your time with him. He seems to be interested in seeing who will fall for his crap. He was possibly engaged to that girl because he got her pregnant and then called it off when they found out that she wasn't. If he's gone silent while with her, then he's not giving you enough particular regard to haul yourself down to see him, is he? I would save my time, my money, and my brain power for something worth your attention.0