I'm aneroxic, insecure and clinically depressed, nobody would ever care to give me a hand, I broke up a year ago, and nobody every asks me out. I'm not mean, I'm nice to guys and most of those who know me trust me with their deepest secrets, but nobody considers me as a dating material. Nobody knew about my eating disorder until I was taken to hospital, then they knew but again nobody seemed to care.
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I dated a girl that became anorexic during our relationship. Anorexia is no f***ing joke, it is very hard to deal with and the whole thing left me damaged in some ways myself. I stuck by her and helped her and she got over it in the end. Unfortunately, I had become a reminder of that period in her life and I think therefore, she broke up with me. I wouldn't date an anorexic girl anymore. It would consume me dealing with those sort of problems of the person I'm in love with and I don't think I could go through that again. Not because I couldn't love someone anorexic, but because I couldn't bear the pain that it causes.
On a side note, I don't think your priority should be to be in a relationship. Relationships are a source of insecurity and it could result in you spiralling into negativity. Be happy about yourself first. Try to fight your anorexia by yourself. You don't need others, you must achieve this on your own strength. And when you get on top again and feel good about yourself, that's the moment when you can think about being in a relationship. First love yourself, then you are ready to love another.
I hope it all works out for you in the end, whatever you decide to do relationship wise.2