I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 5 months,everythings been going great,we have fun on all of our dates,we laugh,have good convo, ect,I've met her friends.We recently talked about going out to Vegas,this was actually her idea,she surprised me with it,So I told her that would be fun,and started planning things.As of this weekend,nothing had been booked yet,We met up for lunch,while we were talking,I brought up the trip,and she seem to get a little nervous,like she wanted to put it off maybe,I pressed her as to why,but she just clammed up,until afterward when we were in my car,She tells me,I feel like you're moving faster than me,that your giving me more than I can give you.I was
at a loss for words,literally,A month or so ago,she told me,if we're going to get closer,we need to spend more time together,So I was really confused,I reminded her of what she said.
Long story short,the night ended well,I met her mom,and we're still going to Vegas.I probably don't have anything to worry about,what do you think.
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She might not be ready to commit, and she sees you as a long term prospect. Be patient with her, same happened to me, a trip we planned after being dating 4 months, we went to a wedding of one of my college former classmates and we spent time with my best friend. 60% of the trip was a disaster, we missed the ferry cause it was at an island... so many things. But now, almost three years later,(April 30) we LOL when we remember about our first trip. Not saying is your story, but just don´t get frustrated if she gets nervous or impatient or doesn´t know how to act under certain setbacks during the trip.0