Basically, to make this short : I'm 20 yo, never had a boyfriend.
I had two dates with a guy last week and he want to schedule a third.
I don't know if I really want to date him. I want a boyfriend, kisses, cuddles ; but even if he's kind and funny, I'm not especially attracted to him. Also I'm very nervous around him (or guys in general) but he seems to like me. (But that makes me so nervous about our dates and when I'm with him, it's almost an ordeal for me)
Should I date him even if I'm not head over heels for him ?
I feel like I MUST date him to know what's it's like to have a boyfriend, my first kiss etc. And that I should stop waiting. But in the other hand I don't want to date someone only because I'm getting older and to have experience.
What should I do ?
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If you like him, you could give him a chance. Maybe feelings will come after some more dates. If not, let him know that you don't feel the same way as he does and you'd like to be friends (even though some people hate it when you say you still wanna be friends).1
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