It really bothers me how after two years he doesn't initiate affection as much. I always have to kiss, hug, cuddle, reach for his hand, etc.
But now I think about it, his "affection" (if you even call it that) involves butt pats, chest grabs, tickling and wrestling. It's more so jokingly or sexually involved, but I like sweet touches and caresses like old times. He says he'll try harder but I don't see a change.
He also only gives me kisses and hugs when we leave or say hi. Or tells me he loves me at goodnight. Never random just routine...
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Tell him you want him to be spontaneous. And if he asks how tell him again, see if he changes. I do understand where you are coming from though, I think he does love you and yes just has a different way of expressing it.1