I met this guy on a dating website and went on a couple of dates with him, on the second I slept with him (I regretted it from the moment afterwards) It turns out he was only interested in one thing. Since then I have met his best mate, we arranged a date and a couple of days before I found out they knew each other because his mate (the first guy) text me. We met the day before our date and the following day and had a great time. He did confront me, but I didn't want to talk about it, I didn't tell him because I didn't want to put him off but would have it if went further. We did speak a little, he said it was weird but not too much of a big deal, and with time it would get better. Last night he text about meeting again, text later and rang but I missed the call so I called him back and he was engaged then I replied by text. I hadn't heard back so text this morning suggesting dinner but I still haven't heard and don't think it looks good. What should I do? Should I lay my cards on the table and say I know we are in a weird situation but we've had a great couple of first dates, get one well and think we could have more good times together and it could develop. I didn't want to talk about it on our date but if he wants to he can give me a call, if not I'll give him a few days to think about it but its his decision, hopefully we'll meet up at the weekend but the ball is in his court?
Also, he wanted sex on the second date but I held off, I told him I wanted him to respect me and I wanted to respect myself. They are also both in the forces.
Please help me, for the first time in ages I have felt like I've met a good match and I feel like I've lost something which could have gone somewhere.
It was guy 2 who confronted me about it on our second date.