Ok well all my life guys have only wanted to hook up with me, I have never had a guy actually interested in dating me. I am not that type of girl though, I am saving myself for marriage, so time after time a guy (mind you it was only guys who went after anyone) would approach me and we would talk then they would pop the idea of having a fling, friend with benefits, or hook up and each time I told them no. I don't get why no guys want a relationship with me, I have never been on a date, I have never even been approached for a date, what am I doing wrong? Am I just too ugly to date so they think they might as well just hook up with me? Do guys only ask girls who are really ugly to be friends with benefits as opposed to dating? I just don't know what I am doing to attract these guys to ask me these things?
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Nowadays, guys are less likely to want relationships. See, a couple of generations ago men considered a relationship with a woman only with the most serious intentions (marriage). Truth is, Men sacrificed their freedom in exchange of female intimacy (sex). In those times girls didn't give sex away as easy as today, so Men had no other option than to marry a woman, and build a family together (the natural consequence of a relationship). Today, the price Men used to pay for sex (commitment) is mere peanuts. Women are so sl*tty that the odds to find a girl who won't put out in the first date are microscopically small. and things are only going to get worse in the future. I'm serious.
Economics. If you put your intimacy a high price (commitment, exclusivity), very little men would agree to buy. You will attract any sort of customers, some willing to pay your price, some who don't. This is unavoidable and is part of the economics of life. Sounds simple, but all you have to do is identify those men who are willing to wait for sex.0