Why aren't girls more open to giving a guy a chance when you're approached? Say you're single and a guy walks up to you and starts talking to you and trying to get to know you. Why would you not give the guy a chance at a date. I suppose you could go on one date with him and you realize it's not going to work. Then again that guy could be your future husband. I talk to a girl and I really don't expect a whole lot to happen. If she gives me her number great. If not that's OK too. Why does it seem that girls treat dating or giving out a number as if it's a marriage proposal?
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Ever heard this line: "A woman won't date just anyone"? Yep. This means women have expectations, requirements, qualifications and everything else out of a man. He better have it all or most of it or he's going to be good friends with the adult entertainment industry.
Also remember that this is the New Age of the Woman. Ever heard this other line: "I don't NEED a man in my life so I'm not going to have one"? Yep. Women are now obsessed with their careers more than ever and ANY...and I mean ANY relationships with men will destroy their lives. Feminism teaches women that men are dominating, selfish, egotistical, psychotic, mean, arrogant, cheating, useless, lazy, maniacal, disloyal, greedy, violent, sex crazed, sexually immoral, sexually indecent, sexually criminally insane...ok you get the idea. Therefore, there is no such thing as a good man and women simply won't get involved with one.
Summary: It takes a tremendous amount of luck or materialism to get a woman's positive attention these days. And it's not going to get any better.
Just how it is. Don't blame women entirely, we men did make an already volatile relation with women worse over the centuries0