Met a guy, flirted back and forth but felt like he was just interested in me psychically not my persoanilty. Called it quits but couldn't stop thinking about him. 2 weeks after no contact I text him randomly out of the blue because I liked the attention he gave me, even though I know he's not anything long term and I'm not into ONS.
I have no idea why I text him in the first place and now I feel like a bigger idiot if he doesn't text back and if he does text back I'm not sure I even want to speak to him.
What should I do? Why am I feeling like this? I know he's not really good news, but don't know him that well, just the vibes he gives off.
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I hate to say it but some girls are just attracted to the jerks in this world. They appear confident and cool... cool enough to even ignore you.
Methinks you may have simply liked the attention from a (possibly good looking) guy who- despite that fact- is the very last thing you would ever want for bf- or ANY friend- material.
Those kind of guys are simply bad news- but they're uncomplicated... and maybe they give you some sort of confirmation you may crave just a little... plus some (short sighted) attention. In the end you'll be let down... since any guy like that has the emotional depth of a piece of paper... a pretty bad investment, really.
Still... they get plenty of play, these guys... lots of the time... so... what's up with that?0