Guy I'm dating texts like a girl - It's a real turn off. What to do?

I recently started texting with a guy I'm dating. He says things like OMG! LOL! And it really isn't sexy. I'm beginning to not want to text with him. What should I do?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • if he is a jokester who can take some teasing how about just make fun of him for it. But in all honesty, this is by far the weirdest "turn off" I've ever heard. I mean he could just be expressing that he's happy "OMG LOL". I mean he ain't like "I LOVE You SWEETIE <3 <3 <3"...is he? Anyway If a girl said I "texted her to girly" I would think she'd be a arrogant broad.

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What Guys Said 7

  • whenever he sends you a text like that reply with this link

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  • just be honest. if he respects you he will cut it out.

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  • What does a guy text like?

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  • Thanks for warning me. I do that sometimes. I should stop though.

    Guys are supposed be to stoical lol.

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  • GAY!

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  • Stop making mountains out of molehills, I guess.

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  • You shouldn't think of this too much. It must be his texting personality. What matters most is what he does in person.

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What Girls Said 4

  • Okay, and what would you consider to be a

    "sexy" and manly text? To be honest, I would like

    to help you. However, I don't really see a problem

    here!

    They say you should pick your battles, like know what's

    an important issue to bring up and what's not. And, cupcake,

    this ain't an important issue. So, unless you guys get serious

    and he comes home smelling like stale liquior and cheap

    perfume, I think I would just let this go. I'm sorry, it's a turn

    off for you, but everybody say's "LOL" it's what you do when you

    think something is funny. And, the man should be allowed to laugh.

    Same with the "OMG" it's what you do when your surprised or

    shocked by something,which guys are allowed to do. Words

    are just words, they are not gender specific. So, I think you need

    to consider that the next time you choose to pick on his choice in text

    phrases.

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  • Lol...

    that sucks

    Just tell him.

    One time my boyfriend started using lots of girl slang (what you have in your question description)

    but I just asked him why and we talked about it...because it was really different because it wasn't his personality. Just talk to him in a very polite way.

    He might be trying to assimilate into your life and thinks using LOL and OMG will help out :)

    ..put you at ease

    But since it's not, just talk to him about it.

    Communication is key :)

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  • i wouldn't consider that girly. that's normal for a lot of people regardless of gender.

    what makes a manly text? "hey. OK. yeah. thanks babe." ?

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  • I think you should stop being bitchy. Seriously. Someone's texting style a turn off? Sounds like you are searching for a reason for it not to work and this is the best you can come up with...

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