I've hung out with this guy I like. Once we drank and kissed/made out and I don't have a lot of experience with guys so he said I was bad but I agreed and we all laughed and then ended up sleeping together on the couch. He also kissed me in the morning before he left. Then recently I saw him again and I hung out with his friends but I'm kind of awkward with other people and I just didn't know what to say/do so I feel like it didn't go well but he still kissed me before I left for a long while, it was a long closed mouth kiss and we kind of laughed about it since I wasn' drunk again and I wasn't bad. But I felt kind of bad because we don't do much and I was being kind of lame and I know he thinks I am but he's still talking to me so I guess that's good? We have other plans too for some one on one time for once so ill see how that goes but I'm just weird around new people. What exactly do you talk about is a big thing with me? Or what can I do to have more fun not being so lame?
I've asked him kind of about it but I don't know hat to do
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stop saying you're lame, and you're bad at kissing, and you're awkward and sh*t like that.
Maybe you're a bit shy so you haven't developped a lot social skills but don't worry about it. He likes you. Keep that in mind.
You have all the reasons to be comfortable. If you focus on "how lame" you think you are, you will program yourself to be lame indeed...
relax. You're cool enough to have triggered his interest for you... :)
Talk about anything. SHARE things. share experiences, share feelings about a thing you have in common. sh*t like that. Joke and laugh toegether.