Well, I got a girl's number through a mutual acquaintance who was talking about me and the girl happened to overhear and was interested enough to pass on her number. Called her Thursday night and left a voice message. It is now Sunday night with no word back. What is my next step?
I know it has been Mother's Day weekend, but I feel like if there was any interest she would have at least somehow gotten in touch. So I'm thinking one more call attempt (either tonight or tomorrow night) and then call it quits if no response that time. Thoughts? Suggestions? Should I text instead of call this time? All opinions (girls and guys) appreciated.
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a guy did this to me, he seemed so interested in me, couldn't be away from me in person! as soon as I texted him, he never ever replied and ignored me day after as well.
i never looked twice at him again. never acknowledged him. and our 'friendship' in person was over. I don't trust shady people like that. he kept trying to say hi to me in person not once did I look at him. someone ignores my advances I don't give a sh*t if theyre dead or alive.
i think its so CHEAP when someone ignores ones texts or calls. because people live on their fake cyber life on Facebook twitter all day long and are glued to their phones. and they forget that there are real people in person you could be having quality time with. and when someone tries to connect with you and calls your phone, and you never reply, it shows how cheap you are that you can't spare some love/feelings/friendship.
i don't care if a guy was into me or just platonic friends, if he texted or called me, id return their call. its proper courtesy and professional. plus its networking. that friendship could turn into more and he could be a good asset to me. our friendship could benefit us both.
so if someone doesn't reply to your call or text, just label them as CHEAP. cause that's what they are. selfish people with hearts of black coal.0