So this guy and I have been getting to know each other for about two months. We're not in a commiterd relationship, we both date other people. Today he told me about a girl he ran back into. He was bragging about all of her accomplishment's and financial status. Finally I had to ask him if he was attracted to her. He paused and replied that he didn't know. Now mind you, he told me how they had, went out for drink's and caught up on old time's. He then added: "She is very beautiful." I feel crushed. First of all, we're both single. I'm sure he date's. But I don't want to hear about it. DO YOU THINK HE WAS TRYING TO MAKE ME JEALOUS? It's weird because although he alway's tell's me how beautiful I am and contact's me on a regular basis...I feel like he's just not that into me. He doesn't try to see me like he use to, and has stood me up several time's. He wasn't like this before. If he is trying to push me away...he succeeded this time. I give up.
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I just came got dumped 3 weeks ago, it was a mess. I stayed even though it was bad and it wasn't what I wanted because I was weak and I felt like I needed him. So I allowed him to treat me as he wanted to, I was his tool to use. I do not want any other girl to go through the same rollercoaster so I am being blunt and realistic.
If we are more confident and assertive as women, would stop ignoring the red flags as they appear and quit while we are ahead we would save ourselves the heartache and the feeling of unworthiness. I have learned a lot from my failed relationship and I want to use it to inspire women to be better . Message me anytime0