Quite an interesting journey but I developed a thing for the man who hired me, my boss. Mind you, I didn't start talking to him after he left my place of work for a new job. Anyhow, we talk everyday and on the days I don't talk to him he always sends a message wondering what I'm up to. Tonight was the first time we got into an argument over a co-worker of mine he once had feelings for because tonight she said she missed him and wanted to give him another chance. It turned out to be a bigger fight than I thought it'd be but he refused to end it on a bad note. By the end of the conversation we were both laughing (changed topic) and talked for over an hour. After the phone call, about 10 min later..when I got all settled in bed to sleep, he sent me a " :) " text.
I guess what I'm asking is what do you think of his " :) " text. What does that mean? I'm worried if I made myself out to be a jealous, never trusting kind of girl who feeds into drama :/ Do guys get turned off by a girl after a fight and see them differently? or maybe he sees me in a positive way cause we worked things out? IDK. What do you think? How can you relate from your personal experiences?
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I think the smiley might just have been because he was happy that you ended a fight on a good note. I'm not sure how this guy would respond to a bit of jealousy. If he likes you, I think it is possible he would have liked that you got a bit jealous - it's an ego boost as it means he's worth fighting over. Because you reconciled I think that that's the more likely option.
I do know many guys that find jealous girls off-putting because it often means they will be clingy and demanding, but from what you've described I think that he does like you.
It seems like things are back to normal, so I wouldn't really stress. That said, I wouldn't make a habit out of getting into jealous fights with him haha.1