Quick story, met a man while being out, spent all day together, went out to dinner,talked for hours, he texted me the same day and all day next day already asking to see me again, again talked for hours, messaged me Thursday, didn't hear from him during the weekend so I messaged him Sunday with a quick hello, mentioned finals coming up and how stressful they are that I'm gonna walk to the bar to take a shot after, he told me to take one for him,i suggested that he should come with Monday funday and to that he wrote "lmaooooooooo" ...and nothing since, can someone shine some light on this situation
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Well, you just met him once randomly. Sometimes these things fizzle...
I hate to say it, but he may have already moved on, found someone else to pursue. Just because he had fun with you that day, and texted you a lot afterward, doesn't mean it was anything more than just fun for him.
I think a lot of guys also have the strategy of coming on stronger and more serious than they really intend to be, because they fear that if they don't come on strong and immediately ask to see you again, they'll make a bad impression.
Then when they see that you're actually taking them seriously, they back off, because they were never that serious in the first place. Best case, they just got caught up in the moment. Worst case, they were playing a game and they realized they already won, so no need to keep playing it.
And this isn't just specific to guys, because many women have done that to me as well.0