We have gone on a few sole dates
kissed on all dates
date 4 we did not kiss and date 5 I kinda had to plant a kiss since she gave me cheek
i have met a few girls this year alone that at the start I felt strongly towards them..and then when they said they wanted to be just friends it hurt ( after 2 dates). I think after being burned so mush in my life I'm actually numb to the idea of being with someone and expect things not to wrk out.
this current girl..i like her a lot...after 3 great dates the last 2 have slowed down.
i have not lost interest in her..but sometimes I'm maybe to nervous or tired to say something.
if she told me she only wants to 'be friends'..it would not hurt as bad. maybe because of being burned a lot..im used to it
i think about her all the time. part of me is holding back though.
what do I feel? a crush?
she may see me as a friend only.
i hope not.
i feel I should like her more ..but I think I hold back.
i also don't want to see any other girls.
i guess my question is also"if I like her so much why doesn't it feel like it?"
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many guys end up in the friend zone Instead of stateing upfront where they stand with the girl. If you act like just a friend then you will be looked at as a friend but if you honestly openly share your intentions, and feelings and then ask the girl how she feels too, you can move on to the next step of becoming closer with the girl or just ending it.0